104. The Case of One Who Kisses His Wife or Looks at Her With or Without Lust, or Looks at Someone Else

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1ـ عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ وَمُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ عَنِ الْفَضْلِ بْنِ شَاذَانَ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي عُمَيْرٍ وَصَفْوَانَ بْنِ يَحْيَى عَنْ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنِ عَمَّارٍ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ الله (عَلَيْهِ السَّلاَم) قَالَ سَأَلْتُهُ عَنْ مُحْرِمٍ نَظَرَ إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ فَأَمْنَى أَوْ أَمْذَى وَهُوَ مُحْرِمٌ قَالَ لا شَيْ‏ءَ عَلَيْهِ وَلَكِنْ لِيَغْتَسِلْ وَيَسْتَغْفِرُ رَبَّهُ وَإِنْ حَمَلَهَا مِنْ غَيْرِ شَهْوَةٍ فَأَمْنَى أَوْ أَمْذَى فَلا شَيْ‏ءَ عَلَيْهِ وَإِنْ حَمَلَهَا أَوْ مَسَّهَا بِشَهْوَةٍ فَأَمْنَى أَوْ أَمْذَى فَعَلَيْهِ دَمٌ وَقَالَ فِي الْمُحْرِمِ يَنْظُرُ إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ وَيُنْزِلُهَا بِشَهْوَةٍ حَتَّى يُنْزِلَ قَالَ عَلَيْهِ بَدَنَةٌ.


1. Ali ibn Ibrahim has narrated from his father from and Muhammad ibn ‘Isma‘il has narrated from al-Fadl ibn Shadhan from ibn abu ‘Umayr and from Safwan ibn Yahya from Mu‘awiyah ibn ‘Ammar who has said the following: “I once asked abu ‘ Abd Allah, ‘Alayhi al-Salam, about a man who in the state of Ihram, looks to his wife and discharges semen or madhiy (a certain fluid). He (the Imam) said, ‘There is nothing on him but he must take Ghusl (bath) and ask forgiveness from his Lord; if he carries her without lust and discharges semen or madhiy also, there is nothing on him, and if he carries her or touches her with lust and discharges semen or madhiy, he owes one offering.’ He (the Imam) said, ‘If one carries his wife down with lust until he discharges, he owes one badanah.’”


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Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi: حسن كالصحيح - Mir‘at al ‘Uqul Fi Sharh Akhbar Al al Rasul (17/351)



2ـ عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي عُمَيْرٍ عَنْ حَمَّادٍ عَنِ الْحَلَبِيِّ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ الله (عَلَيْهِ السَّلاَم) قَالَ سَأَلْتُهُ عَنِ الْمُحْرِمِ يَضَعُ يَدَهُ مِنْ غَيْرِ شَهْوَةٍ عَلَى امْرَأَتِهِ قَالَ نَعَمْ يُصْلِحُ عَلَيْهَا خِمَارَهَا وَيُصْلِحُ عَلَيْهَا ثَوْبَهَا وَمَحْمِلَهَا قُلْتُ أَ فَيَمَسُّهَا وَهِيَ مُحْرِمَةٌ قَالَ نَعَمْ قُلْتُ الْمُحْرِمُ يَضَعُ يَدَهُ بِشَهْوَةٍ قَالَ يُهَرِيقُ دَمَ شَاةٍ قُلْتُ فَإِنْ قَبَّلَ قَالَ هَذَا أَشَدُّ يَنْحَرُ بَدَنَةً.


2. Ali ibn Ibrahim has narrated from his father from ibn abu ‘Umayr from Hammad from al-Halabiy who has said the following: “I once asked abu ‘Abd Allah, ‘Alayhi al-Salam, about a man who is in the state of Ihram and places his hand on his wife without lust. He (the Imam) said, ‘Yes, he can secure her veil or her cloth or her carriage.’ I then asked, ‘Can he touch her while she is in the state of Ihram?’ He (the Imam) said, ‘Yes, he can do so.’ I then asked, ‘Can he place his hand on her with lust while he is in the state of Ihram?’ He (the Imam) said, ‘There is offering of one sheep on him.’ I then asked about kissing. He (the Imam) said, ‘This is more severe. He must offer one badanah for it.’”


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Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi: حسن - Mir‘at al ‘Uqul Fi Sharh Akhbar Al al Rasul (7/352)



3ـ عِدَّةٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِنَا عَنْ سَهْلِ بْنِ زِيَادٍ عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنْ عَلِيِّ بْنِ أَبِي حَمْزَةَ عَنْ أَبِي الْحَسَنِ (عَلَيْهِ السَّلاَم) قَالَ سَأَلْتُهُ عَنْ رَجُلٍ قَبَّلَ امْرَأَتَهُ وَهُوَ مُحْرِمٌ قَالَ عَلَيْهِ بَدَنَةٌ وَإِنْ لَمْ يُنْزِلْ وَلَيْسَ لَهُ أَنْ يَأْكُلَ مِنْهَا.


3. A number of our people have narrated from Sahl ibn Ziyad from Ahmad ibn Muhammad from Ali ibn abu Hamzah who has said the following: “I once asked abu al-Hassan, ‘Alayhi al-Salam, about a man who is in the state of Ihram and kisses his wife. He (the Imam) said, ‘There is one badanah on him and he must not eat from its meat even if he does not discharge any semen.’”


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Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi: ضعيف - Mir‘at al ‘Uqul Fi Sharh Akhbar Al al Rasul (17/353)



4ـ سَهْلُ بْنُ زِيَادٍ وَمُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ جَمِيعاً عَنِ ابْنِ مَحْبُوبٍ عَنِ ابْنِ رِئَابٍ عَنْ مِسْمَعٍ أَبِي سَيَّارٍ قَالَ قَالَ لِي أَبُو عَبْدِ الله (عَلَيْهِ السَّلاَم) يَا أَبَا سَيَّارٍ إِنَّ حَالَ الْمُحْرِمِ ضَيِّقَةٌ فَمَنْ قَبَّلَ امْرَأَتَهُ عَلَى غَيْرِ شَهْوَةٍ وَهُوَ مُحْرِمٌ فَعَلَيْهِ دَمُ شَاةٍ وَمَنْ قَبَّلَ امْرَأَتَهُ عَلَى شَهْوَةٍ فَأَمْنَى فَعَلَيْهِ جَزُورٌ وَيَسْتَغْفِرُ رَبَّهُ وَمَنْ مَسَّ امْرَأَتَهُ بِيَدِهِ وَهُوَ مُحْرِمٌ عَلَى شَهْوَةٍ فَعَلَيْهِ دَمُ شَاةٍ وَمَنْ نَظَرَ إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ نَظَرَ شَهْوَةٍ فَأَمْنَى فَعَلَيْهِ جَزُورٌ وَمَنْ مَسَّ امْرَأَتَهُ أَوْ لازَمَهَا مِنْ غَيْرِ شَهْوَةٍ فَلا شَيْ‏ءَ عَلَيْهِ.


4. Sahl ibn Ziyad and Muhammad ibn Yahya has narrated from Ahmad ibn Muhammad all from ibn Mahbub from ibn Ri’ab from Misma’ abu Sayyar who has said the following: “Abu ‘Abd Allah, ‘Alayhi al-Salam, once said to me, ‘O abu Sayyar the condition of one in the state of Ihram is restricted. If one kisses his wife without lust while in the state of Ihram, he owes one sheep; if one does so with lust and discharges semen, he owes a Jazur (slaughtering a camel) and must ask his Lord for forgiveness. If one touches his wife with his hand while he is in the state of Ihram with lust, he owes one sheep. If one looks at his wife with lust and ejaculates semen, he owes one Jazur. However, if one touches his wife or holds without lust there is not anything on him.’”


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Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi: صحيح - Mir‘at al ‘Uqul Fi Sharh Akhbar Al al Rasul (17/353)



5ـ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ عَنِ الْفَضْلِ بْنِ شَاذَانَ عَنْ صَفْوَانَ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْحَجَّاجِ قَالَ سَأَلْتُ أَبَا الْحَسَنِ (عَلَيْهِ السَّلاَم) عَنِ الْمُحْرِمِ يَعْبَثُ بِأَهْلِهِ حَتَّى يُمْنِيَ مِنْ غَيْرِ جِمَاعٍ أَوْ يَفْعَلُ ذَلِكَ فِي شَهْرِ رَمَضَانَ مَا ذَا عَلَيْهِمَا قَالَ عَلَيْهِمَا جَمِيعاً الْكَفَّارَةُ مِثْلُ مَا عَلَى الَّذِي يُجَامِعُ.


5. Muhammad ibn ‘Isma‘il has narrated from al-Fadl ibn Shadhan from Safwan from ‘Abd al-Rahman ibn al-Hajjaj who has said the following: “I once asked abu al-Hassan, ‘Alayhi al-Salam, about a man who is in the state of Ihram and plays with his wife until he discharges semen without intercourse; or if it is in the month of Ramadan what he will owe. He (the Imam) said, ‘There is kaffarah (expiation) on both of them just as for sexual intercourse.’”


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Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi: مجهول كالصحيح - Mir‘at al ‘Uqul Fi Sharh Akhbar Al al Rasul (17/354)



6ـ عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ عُثْمَانَ الْخَزَّازِ عَنْ صَبَّاحٍ الْحَذَّاءِ عَنْ إِسْحَاقَ بْنِ عَمَّارٍ عَنْ أَبِي الْحَسَنِ (عَلَيْهِ السَّلاَم) قَالَ قُلْتُ لَهُ مَا تَقُولُ فِي مُحْرِمٍ عَبِثَ بِذَكَرِهِ فَأَمْنَى قَالَ أَرَى عَلَيْهِ مِثْلَ مَا عَلَى مَنْ أَتَى أَهْلَهُ وَهُوَ مُحْرِمٌ بَدَنَةً وَالْحَجَّ مِنْ قَابِلٍ.


6. Ali ibn Ibrahim has narrated from his father from ibn abu ‘Umayr from ‘Amr ibn ‘Uthman al-Khazzaz from Sabah al-Hadhdha’ from Ishaq ibn ‘Ammar who has said the following: “I once asked abu al-Hassan, ‘Alayhi al-Salam, about a man who is in the state of Ihram, plays with his penis and discharges semen. He (the Imam) said, ‘It is like one who, while in the state of Ihram, performs sexual intercourse with his wife; he owes badanah and al-Hajj in future.’”


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Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi: حسن موثق - Mir‘at al ‘Uqul Fi Sharh Akhbar Al al Rasul (17/355)



7ـ أَبُو عَلِيٍّ الأَشْعَرِيُّ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْجَبَّارِ عَنْ صَفْوَانَ عَنْ إِسْحَاقَ بْنِ عَمَّارٍ عَنْ أَبِي بَصِيرٍ قَالَ سَأَلْتُ أَبَا عَبْدِ الله (عَلَيْهِ السَّلاَم) عَنْ رَجُلٍ نَظَرَ إِلَى سَاقِ امْرَأَةٍ فَأَمْنَى قَالَ إِنْ كَانَ مُوسِراً فَعَلَيْهِ بَدَنَةٌ وَإِنْ كَانَ بَيْنَ ذَلِكَ فَبَقَرَةٌ وَإِنْ كَانَ فَقِيراً فَشَاةٌ أَمَا إِنِّي لَمْ أَجْعَلْ ذَلِكَ عَلَيْهِ مِنْ أَجْلِ الْمَاءِ وَلَكِنْ مِنْ أَجْلِ أَنَّهُ نَظَرَ إِلَى مَا لا يَحِلُّ لَهُ.


7. Abu Ali al-Ash’ariy has narrated from Muhammad ibn ‘Abd al-Jabbar from Safwan from Ishaq ibn ‘Ammar from abu Basir who has said the following: “I once asked abu ‘Abd Allah, ‘Alayhi al-Salam, about a man who is in the state of Ihram, looks at the leg of a woman and discharges semen. He (the Imam) said, ‘If he is affluent, he owes badanah; if he is not so much affluent, then it is a cow; if he is poor then it is a sheep. I do not place it on him because of semen but it is because of looking to what is not lawful for him.’”


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Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi: موثق - Mir‘at al ‘Uqul Fi Sharh Akhbar Al al Rasul (7/355)



8ـ عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي عُمَيْرٍ عَنْ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنِ عَمَّارٍ فِي مُحْرِمٍ نَظَرَ إِلَى غَيْرِ أَهْلِهِ فَأَنْزَلَ قَالَ عَلَيْهِ دَمٌ لأَنَّهُ نَظَرَ إِلَى غَيْرِ مَا يَحِلُّ لَهُ وَإِنْ لَمْ يَكُنْ أَنْزَلَ فَلْيَتَّقِ الله وَلا يَعُدْ وَلَيْسَ عَلَيْهِ شَيْ‏ءٌ.


8. Ali ibn Ibrahim has narrated from his father from ibn abu ‘Umayr from Mu‘awiyah ibn ‘Ammar who has said the following: “About a man who in the state of Ihram, looks to those other than his wife and discharges semen, he (the Imam), ‘Alayhi al-Salam, said, ‘He owes an animal offering because of looking at what is not lawful for him. If there is no semen discharge, he must maintain piety before Allah, he must not repeat and there is not anything on him.’”


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Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi: حسن - Mir‘at al ‘Uqul Fi Sharh Akhbar Al al Rasul (17/355)



9ـ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ أَحْمَدَ النَّهْدِيِّ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْوَلِيدِ عَنْ أَبَانِ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ عَنِ الْحُسَيْنِ بْنِ حَمَّادٍ قَالَ سَأَلْتُ أَبَا عَبْدِ الله (عَلَيْهِ السَّلاَم) عَنِ الْمُحْرِمِ يُقَبِّلُ أُمَّهُ قَالَ لا بَأْسَ هَذِهِ قُبْلَةُ رَحْمَةٍ إِنَّمَا يُكْرَهُ قُبْلَةُ الشَّهْوَةِ.


9. Ahmad ibn Muhammad from has narrated from Muhammad ibn Ahmad al-Nahdiy from Muhammad ibn al-Walid from Aban ibn ‘Uthman from al-Husayn ibn Hammad who has said the following: “I once asked abu ‘Abd Allah, ‘Alayhi al-Salam, about a man who is in the state of Ihram and his mother kisses him. He (the Imam) said, ‘It is not harmful; it is a kiss of blessing, only kissing with lust is despised.’”


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Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi: مختلف فيه - Mir‘at al ‘Uqul Fi Sharh Akhbar Al al Rasul (17/356)



10ـ عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ وُهَيْبِ بْنِ حَفْصٍ عَنْ أَبِي بَصِيرٍ قَالَ سَأَلْتُ أَبَا عَبْدِ الله (عَلَيْهِ السَّلاَم) عَنْ رَجُلٍ يَسْمَعُ كَلامَ امْرَأَةٍ مِنْ خَلْفِ حَائِطٍ وَهُوَ مُحْرِمٌ فَتَشَهَّى حَتَّى أَنْزَلَ قَالَ لَيْسَ عَلَيْهِ شَيْ‏ءٌ.


10. Ali ibn Ibrahim has narrated from his father from Wuhayb ibn Hafs from abu Basir who has said the following: “I once asked abu ‘Abd Allah, ‘Alayhi al-Salam, about a man who in the state of Ihram, hears a woman speaking from behind the wall and because of lust he discharges semen. He (the Imam) said, ‘There is nothing on him.’”


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Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi: حسن أو موثق - Mir‘at al ‘Uqul Fi Sharh Akhbar Al al Rasul (17/356)



11ـ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْحُسَيْنِ عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ أَبِي نَصْرٍ عَنْ بَعْضِ أَصْحَابِنَا عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ الله (عَلَيْهِ السَّلاَم) فِي مُحْرِمٍ اسْتَمَعَ عَلَى رَجُلٍ يُجَامِعُ أَهْلَهُ فَأَمْنَى قَالَ لَيْسَ عَلَيْهِ شَيْ‏ءٌ.


11. Muhammad ibn Yahya has narrated from Muhammad ibn al-Husayn from Ahmad ibn Muhammad from ibn abu Nasr from certain persons of our people who has said the following: “I once asked abu ‘Abd Allah, ‘Alayhi al-Salam, about a man who is in the state of Ihram, hears a man performing sexual intercourse with his wife and he also discharges semen. He (the Imam) said, ‘There is nothing on him.’”


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Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi: مرسل كالصحيح - Mir‘at al ‘Uqul Fi Sharh Akhbar Al al Rasul (17/356)



12ـ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْحُسَيْنِ عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ أَبِي نَصْرٍ عَنْ سَمَاعَةَ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ الله (عَلَيْهِ السَّلاَم) فِي الْمُحْرِمِ تُنْعَتُ لَهُ الْمَرْأَةُ الْجَمِيلَةُ الْخِلْقَةِ فَيُمْنِي قَالَ لَيْسَ عَلَيْهِ شَيْ‏ءٌ.


12. Muhammad ibn Yahya has narrated from Muhammad ibn al-Husayn from Ahmad ibn Muhammad from ibn abu Nasr from Sama‘ah who has said the following: “I once asked abu ‘Abd Allah, ‘Alayhi al-Salam, about a man who is in the state of Ihram, a beautiful woman describes her beauty and he discharges semen. He (the Imam) said, ‘There is nothing on him.’”


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Allamah Baqir al-Majlisi: موثق - Mir‘at al ‘Uqul Fi Sharh Akhbar Al al Rasul (17/356)