Chapter on the Age at Which Children Should No Longer Be Touched Affectionately or Carried, and the Obligation to Separate Them in Their Beds

Man Lā Yaḥḍuruh al-Faqīh|Volume 3|Book 3|Chapter 29

Man Lā Yaḥḍuruh al-Faqīh

Volume 3, Book 3, Chapter 29

Chapter on the Age at Which Children Should No Longer Be Touched Affectionately or Carried, and the Obligation to Separate Them in Their Beds
6 hadiths
Hadith 1

رَوَى مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى اَلْخَزَّازُ عَنْ غِيَاثِ بْنِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ قَالَ قَالَ عَلِيٌّ صَلَوَاتُُ اَللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ: "مُبَاشَرَةُ اَلْمَرْأَةِ اِبْنَتَهَا إِذَا بَلَغَتْ سِتَّ سِنِينَ شُعْبَةٌ مِنَ اَلزِّنَا".

Muhammad ibn Yahya al-Khazzaz narrated from Ghiyath ibn Ibrahim, from Imam Jafar ibn Muhammad Al-Sadiq (a.s) from his father, Imam Muhammad ibn Ali Al-Baqir (a.s), who said: "Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib (a.s) said: "A woman touching her daughter in an inappropriate manner once she has reached six years of age is a form of indecency (a branch of fornication)."

Hadith 2

وَ رَوَى عَبْدُ اَللَّهِ بْنُ يَحْيَى اَلْكَاهِلِيُّ قَالَ سَأَلَ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ اَلنُّعْمَانِ أَبَا عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ: فَقَالَ لَهُ عِنْدِي جُوَيْرِيَةٌ لَيْسَ بَيْنِي وَ بَيْنَهَا رَحِمٌ وَ لَهَا سِتُّ سِنِينَ قَالَ "لاَ تَضَعْهَا فِي حَجْرِكَ".

Abdullah ibn Yahya al-Kahili narrated that Ahmad ibn al-Numan asked Abu Abdillah (a.s): "I have a young bondwoman who is not related to me by blood, and she is six years old." Imam (a.s) said: "Do not place her in your lap."

Hadith 3

وَ رَوَى أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ أَبِي نَصْرٍ عَنِ اَلرِّضَا عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ قَالَ: "يُؤْخَذُ اَلْغُلاَمُ بِالصَّلاَةِ وَ هُوَ اِبْنُ سَبْعِ سِنِينَ وَ لاَ تُغَطِّي اَلْمَرْأَةُ شَعْرَهَا مِنْهُ حَتَّى يَحْتَلِمَ".

Ahmad ibn Muhammad ibn Abi Nasr narrated from Imam Ali ibn Musa Ar-Ridha (a.s), who said: "A boy is instructed to perform prayer when he is seven years old, and a woman is not required to cover her hair in front of him until he reaches puberty."

Hadith 4

وَ رُوِيَ: "أَنَّهُ يُفَرَّقُ بَيْنَ اَلصِّبْيَانِ فِي اَلْمَضَاجِعِ لِسِتِّ سِنِينَ".

It is narrated: "Children should be separated in their sleeping arrangements at the age of six years."

Hadith 5

وَ رَوَى عَبْدُ اَللَّهِ بْنُ مَيْمُونٍ عَنْ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ آبَائِهِ عَلَيْهِمُ اَلسَّلاَمُ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ صَلَّى اَللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَ آلِهِ: "اَلصَّبِيُّ وَ اَلصَّبِيُّ وَ اَلصَّبِيُّ وَ اَلصَّبِيَّةُ وَ اَلصَّبِيَّةُ وَ اَلصَّبِيَّةُ يُفَرَّقُ بَيْنَهُمْ فِي اَلْمَضَاجِعِ لِعَشْرِ سِنِينَ ".

Abdullah ibn Maymun narrated from Imam Jafar ibn Muhammad Al-Sadiq (a.s) from his father, Imam Muhammad ibn Ali Al-Baqir (a.s), from his forefathers (peace be upon them), who said: The Messenger of Allah (swt) (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) said: "A boy and a boy, a boy and a girl, and a girl and a girl should be separated in their sleeping arrangements at the age of ten years."

Hadith 6

وَ فِي رِوَايَةِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ أَحْمَدَ عَنِ اَلْعُبَيْدِيِّ عَنْ زَكَرِيَّا اَلْمُؤْمِنِ رَفَعَهُ أَنَّهُ قَالَ قَالَ أَبُو عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ: "إِذَا بَلَغَتِ اَلْجَارِيَةُ سِتَّ سِنِينَ فَلاَ يُقَبِّلُهَا اَلْغُلاَمُ وَ اَلْغُلاَمُ لاَ يُقَبِّلُ اَلْمَرْأَةَ إِذَا جَازَ سَبْعَ سِنِينَ".

In a narration from Muhammad ibn Ahmad, from Al-Ubaydi, from Zakariya al-Mu'min, who raised it to Abu Abdillah (a.s), he said: "When a girl reaches six years of age, a boy should not kiss her, and a boy should not kiss a woman once he passes seven years of age."